Monday, July 20, 2009
The Funeral Day
Today was the last I could see my dad before we were off to Mandai Crematorium. Looking at dad for the last. Tears welling up inside of me. I tried not to cry.
Rituals were done before we set off.. Reached Mandai at 3pm. Did a last ritual. Then off we go to the viewing gallary, which is where we will see my dad body being cremate. I told myself I got to be strong.
Bid goodbye to dad when his coffin is approaching near. My bro pulled me near to see as I standing aside where I dun see the fire. But when I was pulled to stand to face the fire. My heart welled up in pain. I couldn't hold my tears anymore and I cried.
Daddy I am unable to see u anymore apart looking at u in the photo. I didn't regret to have to ask u to have a family photo taken this year during CNY. I will always deeply remember the moments we spent.
Lastly, I would like to thank the people who sent my dad on his last journey. They are:
Uncle Bok Chai & Wife
Uncle Kim San and Wife
Aunt Sai Gin
Aunt Irene & Husband
Aunt Martha
Cousin Danny
Cousin Anthony
Cousin Jennifer
Cousin Catherine
Cousin Madeline
Cousin Beng
Cousin Kenji
Henry
Grace
Yong Xin
Ronald
Jian Mei
Uncle Derrick (Dad's friend)
Uncle Vincent (Dad's friend)
Neighbours of Jalan Berseh
Zhong Hui (my bro's friend) and
Boon (my bro's friend)
Thank you for sending my dad on his last journey. Henry thanks for being there to comfort me and support when I am down. Thanks for letting me know that u are always there when I need a comforting shoulder to lie on.
A.T, thanks for showing me concern all this while though u couldn't make it. But your calls and msg is way enough for me. Although u are not there but u make it a point to msg or call me to make sure I am fine. Dun have worry dude. I am fine.. But thanks ya..
JJ and ZQ, thanks for visiting my dad at the wake and hospital. Really thank you to see that both of u care so much. I am deeply touched.
Hui Min, Patricia, Grace, Karen, Chew Hau, Joyce, Moko, Liang, May, Pei Pei and Catherine, thanks for your understanding and helping me this 2 weeks for my work. Really appreciate lots. Will join u all back in work soon. (They are Jason's Peeps)
Lastly, I wanna say through this period.. I finally sees what type of friends are true. But losing a dad is a painful moment. I need time to get by. I will be strong as my mum needs me. Another 2 more days of rest and settling of stuff before I head back to work.
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