Friday, January 30, 2009
Just a Random Post!!
Hmm.. This topic is discussed between my cousins and Everything will be in General as no names of any parties mention by us will be written here. (KC, Wei & Me)
Its about BGR!!
KC: Hey ask u all, how do u feel how women is feeling?
Wei:
Hmm.. Guys dun really know women lo. Only women can sense how woman/women is feeling. This one ask LH (Me).
Me:
Hmm.. It depends la. Ladies will only be sensitive about what other women is feeling when they are in situation when she's with her bf or with her friends. But the grade of feeling or sensitive depends on who she is with lo.
KC:
Can give example a not? Maybe u start with the surrounding when the women is with her best friends or buddies.
Me:
Ok. If the woman is with her group of ladies and guys friends where no further relation is involve, most likely she will like take it normal and even if she sees her girl friends flirting with the guys or vice versa. She will played along too. This also involves friends whom she knows or dunno. This is quite straight forward as its kinda obvious to be seen. The way she mingle and talk will be notice.
KC:
Ok. What about the lady went out with a group of friends where got both sexes but now in the group, she likes a particular guy?
Me:
Oh.. The lady will try to stick to the guy she likes and will not mingle much with other guys. Even if other guys tries to flirt she will turn away. But she will flirt with the guy she likes only. Even her ladies friends became not that important.
But she will try to talk to the guy and let others got not much chance or probably no chance to talk to him. The thing also must that the guy also interested in talking to her. If the guy doesn't then she will just let him mingle with others while she seat there alone or maybe talk to whoever approach her.
KC:
Oic.. Then what about a couple went with a group of friends but the lady just got to know some her partner friends.
Me:
Wah.. This one a bit hard to answer leh. Coz all are the guy's friends not girl one. We put her bf's guys friend aside as if they talk to her guy much, she won't have much reaction just sit there and listen or may share her views.
BUT if her bf's girls friend talk to him, she will take it as normal if they keep a distance. If the lady whom her bf is talking to starts to play/joke with her bf, her reaction will be great different.
Let me elaborate,
if the gf is a hot-tempered person, she will get angry and just interrupt. Ask her guy to somewhere to give her piece of mind and want the guy to understand that he is with his gf and should show some respect instead of treating her as invincible and she dun even care how long have her bf know the ladies. Her jealousy is super high. She will say what she sees, what she dun like and want the guy to leave the place immediately. There's no further talk for this kind of person.
If the gf is a person who is quick temper, she will tolerate first and say her guy later. All she will say is that next time dun treat her as invincible. She will get jealous by showing unhappy to get attention, but mostly will be misunderstand as not understanding. Even she explained her guy may not agree and try to say her back, she will flare her anger as she wanted some respect and want her guy to understand her position and feelings. But mostly lead to quarrel. But her temper will cool fast and her mood will be back to normal. Her heart still feel the hurt and pain. She will just bear it as she knows guy dun understand how a girl feels and what they actually sense is right.
If the gf is a person with cool temper, she will also get jealous by showing her uneasiness to you. Like trying to cling on to her bf and get his attention. She will tell her bf directly and keep her calm. But most of the time will be ignored as the bf will say her for thinking too much. Then she will just keep quiet and bear everything in her heart. When she reach home she will give it a good cry and goes to bed.
Never look down on how woman sense another lady mind or motive. Its very obivious. If the girl is really angry or agitated, means that its really something wrong with the other party. Although the other lady maybe treating others the same, but there bound to be something different which the guy himself can't see. That's why sometimes a guy's gf tell them about their lady friend behaviour, the guy tend to dun believe as they say we girls are over sensitive. Some people we may know very long, but certain behaviour only others can see and not by our own eyes or our own sense. When a girl tell u how they are feeling or what they sense, its really telling u how uneasy they are feeling. If the bf really care or concern about her, will try to ease her uneasiness by showing how much he really care. By mostly the guy always think that their gf have to be understanding and they will get angry when the gf telling them what they see.
Kor, why do u wanna ask this?
KC:
Oh.. Coz my lady friend like my guy friend. Then whoever talk to my guy friend especially girl, she will show some reaction. Sometimes I wonder why. Now I understand already. But how u all girl know that the girl like the guy.
Me:
Aiyo Kor, you know girl is super sensitive one. They scared other people be third party, so they super cautious. That's why they never let their guard down especially when there are other women around their guy. Every action and reaction, they also read one. Hehe.. Some girls think they know the guy well and thought the guy's gf won't mind. They super wrong lo. When the women know about it, they will backstab the guy's gf to the guy. This is how sometimes a relationship ended.
KC: Wah got so jiat liat ma?
Me: Got la.. Then when are you going to have a gf?
KC, Wei: Why every year you ask the same qns one?
Me: Oh.. Then when are you going to get married? Haha!!
KC:
Wa lau!! No gf, how to marry?!
Then where is yr bf?
Me: Haha.. He go visiting la.
Wei: Why u didn't go?
Me: Nah.. Here hongbao got more!! Hee!!
Wei:
Aiya, dun like to go to places with a lot of unknown people la. Just say la. Always go to places with unknow people, you will keep quiet and just smile after that try to stick with people you know and dare not talk much. People ask you eat, you also pai sei. Then eat a bit and say full. U super funny. Why scared of people? They will eat you meh. Till now you still dun dare to talk to people whom you dunno. Then like that how you make friend de.
KC:
You dunno meh, people approach then she talk. If not fat hope she talk to you. She got no guts one lo. Haha..
Me:
Ya la.. I dunno how to talk to people I dunno. Somemore I dunno the person like to talk what or hear what. At most I ask one qns, u eaten already.. Haha.. After that I dunno what to say liao.. Haha..
KC, Wei: You noob leh!!
KC: LH, the show inside this girl, if you were her what will you do.
(The screen was showing, a couple going out with the girl's friend)
Me: Hmm.. I will ask my friend to stop being so hanky panky lo. Coz dun feel good ba
KC: U will like that meh? I doubt you will do so
Wei: I agree
Me:
Hmm.. May not.. Coz I scare lose a friend and my bf will not be happy.. I will just keep quiet la. But feel unhappy inside..
KC, Wei:
Haha.. Still old you. Always like to keep unhappiness in your heart. Wonder how many unhappy things you have keeping in your heart which any of us including yr bf know.
Me:
Where got things unhappy? Crazy.. If unhappy, I won't be here talking to you all. But hid one corner and be alone lo.
KC:
Hmm.. We know one lo. But if you wanna keep, want to force also no use de. I guess it should be personal. But dun torture yrself ok.
Me:
Aiyo Kor, you worry too much le la. I am fine la.. Hehe.. Hmm.. Got a car park outside AK gate. Who is it? Aren't all the guests and our family members here?
KC, Wei & Me: Why MBTB is here? Sian!! Let's go upstairs!! I want aircon.
KC:
Wei go roll up the carpet, if not LH gonna feel itchy on her feet due to the dust on the carpet. Like last year. Haha..
Me:
Wa win le lo. Haha.. But I really allegy to dust la. That time my eyes also feel itchy. I go get drinks. You all go up first. Hehe..
Wei: Cheng, we going upstairs, u wanna go up or stay with the kids?
Cheng: Coming!!
Ok this is a dialogue with my cousins. Hmm.. Basically this is what I see and gone through. Its not totally accurate as not every woman having the same personality or character. Everyone is different in handling every matter. As I had said, this is very general of some people I have seen and the behaviour. Hope nothing infested anyone's mind. Haha.. Have a great day!! Ciaoz!!
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR TO ALL!!25 Jan 09
Today woke up quite late. The before had a disaster and had no mood for this year new year. Laze around and see my family pack the house. Around evening time, Hailey came over my house, ate reunion dinner. This year no steamboat. Simple dishes which my mum prepared. I ate as much as I could so that in the middle of the night I won't feel hungry. After that drank red wine and wait for past midnight as need to receive the ox year..
26 Jan 09
Exactly 12 midnight, my dad came home. Pray for peace and safety for the family. Then we sat around and watch tv and went out to pray God after that came back home and sleep.
Woke up around 12pm. Went to wash up, had vegetarian food. After went visiting. Hmm.. Nothing much.. All my cousins hair started to see grey hair. Their children already in their teens. Wa lao dun admit old also cannot lo.
Hmm then after visit my aunt. Her leg is pain. See liao heart pain. Hope she can recover soon. After that went home for dinner. My dad went to pack food for us. Hmm.. Slept around 11 plus.
27 Jan 09
Today woke at 10 plus, Wei's mum, Wei, KC and Xiao Jiu is all at my house. Oops.. I am too tired le.. Haha.. Hmm.. Greeted them and receive hong bao from them. Then went to bath and brush teeth. Follwed by my bro. After that went out to shop. Many shops are not open. Quite sian. Then we shop awhile only. After that Xiao Jiu drove us to Da Jiu house. Grandma is there. All of us gave grandma a hug. She hugged all us tightly in her arms. Hmm.. It reminded me the last time she hugged 4 of us tightly was when we were kid. when we grow up, we hardly hugged her. Mostly shake hand or tell her happy new year only. Today see how happy grandma is. I felt happy too. Hehe..
Hmm.. Slack and watch tv. After that Six grandaunt son came. Mouth big and talk big (MBTB). Everybody doesn't like him. So grandma tries to ask him leave by cooking some food ready, ask his family and my Da Jiu's friends to eat first as Da Jiu's friend got other places to go also. Biao yi also wanna go home early. So they eat first. Grandma very funny. She said to MBTB, you all eat first as the table too small. My own children and grandchildren eat later. Lol.. So we continue watch tv and I a bit hungry. With my Xiao Jiu, we at one corner eat titbits and drink Kickapoo. Haha.. Today I keep bully him. Xiao Jiu and I keep arguing on tv programme. At least not so bored after that arguement. After the group finish their dinner, we went to dining table and lao yu sheng. After that eat 2 mouth and I stop le. Coz its not really nice la. Hehe.. Wei and me chatting all the way as we aim for abalone only and we dun want the rest. Haha..
After dinner is out. MBTB went off and the rest whom ate with them also goes off.. As usual Wei, bro and me ate at outside as the dining table still do not have any seats available to us. Haha.. Too many people liao. Haha.. KC after eating, he took shark fin for all of us. The four of us had our little shark fin reunion as we always do for every year when we were a kid and I wanna complain. This year my drumstick is stolen by the MBTB as Wei's mum forgot to keep one for me. So I had some chicken meat. Grandma ask me tomorrow go back for my drumstick, she will cook give me. Grandma so sweet coz she realize the drumsticks were gone before I ate my dinner. Hehe.. After that our dinner, Grandma called the four of us and gave us hong bao one by one. Then we keep inside our bag. After that we went to living to search for poker cards as Wei can't find any and he blame it on his lousy luck this year. Haha.. So I tried to find coz they say Ox bound to get lousy luck. I remembered last year I kept the cards at where so I went back to the usual place to find it. Haha.. KC and bro say Wei noob coz I put at the place where we always gamble or play our cards. Haha..
We played a few rounds of dai dee.. Won 3 rounds out of 5 but bro got our unlucky air, he is the dealer for every round. Got laugh at my KC and Wei. Grandma every year always say the same. The four of us like always stick together whenever we met. Haha.. Actually to the four of us, we are like brothers and sister lo. We played with each other since our kid days and stay with each other before I came to SG to study for my Pri 1 and stayed with Paternal grandma since then. I sometimes still miss my days spent in Malaysia before staying in SG lo. Like more carefree ba. Haha.. Ok after that we leaving for home. Tomorrow going Grandma's Sis house to visit. Still got visiting to go. I going to bed le. Nite. Hope you all enjoy your CNY. ^_^
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Exceeded Limited Endurance
Hmm.. Today dragged myself to work.. Ya I overslept. But is dun feel like getting out of bed. Thinking is this place worth every bit of my energy. Think of money, no choice. Cheer myself up a little that everyday is different.
Hmm.. At 9.30am went for some fire talk juz bcoz tomorrow there will be fire drill in the morning. Hmm.. The talk was 2 hours and a blessing to be away from my desk so that I dun have to see the people in my team.
Hmm.. After the talk went down. Boss ask for the budget list. Print out and give it to him.. As when I walking back to my desk, HR called me.. Hmm.. Went to see Pamela.. But she just walked away. Talk to Shu Hua. She told me my team mates went to make a scene at HR. Mood dwells!!
Shu Hua:
Renee, just now when you went to the fire talk, yr team mate - Kess and Tanya, came in to say that you want to clear your block leave from this thurs to next week. Then they say you ignore them and insist of taking. Did anything like that happen?
Me: (Kept quiet awhile)
Shu Hua, Remember last Tuesday I asked you how many days of leave does my team entitled to. You replied me is 5 days and best to clear it before Jan ends but latest you all give is till Feb end. I forward the mail to all my team members. Do you think I am in the wrong to clear with CNY period as Jan month end is Next week.
Shu Hua:
Ya I remember that. But they just now complain directly to Pamela (This is HR Manager). I can't help you. I am so sorry. What about working with them?
Me:
Its ok and not your fault. Earlier we were in the fire thing. How can you help me? Lol.. Working with them wasn't happy at all. First few days came in, lucky is got Jane around. So any doubts, she is there to guide me. But now she not around. When I have doubts, I asked Tanya who works quite closely and whom Jane proclaimed that Tanya was taught by her.. So its very obvious that Tanya knows Jane's work.
But the reply I got was, she's busy, she's on the phone or simply no reply. When I tried aske the 2nd time, she say she dunno when the first time is a no reply. When she's busy or the phone, I apologise for not realising she using phone then I stand aside to wait for her to attend to me. She snub at me saying, can't you go back to your seat. Then I tell her say I need to do this up urgently. I waiting for you to be free. So tat I won't sit at my com and do nothing.
Shu Hua:
How can she like that!! You are new and not that experience. How can she treat you like that... Really too much lo.. Did you tell your boss about it?
Me:
Tried to tell him but turn on deaf ears. I really dunno what to do. I even ask her who can ask since she dunno, she ask me go ask boss.. Another issue was that time block leave and we were ask back to work.. Things are still fine.. But was called back to work on a Sat tat is the week where block leave ends and a few more days to the event. I came back and at that time, my invoices are all done up already. Then Tanya asked me help and the instructions given wasn't clear. So I tell her, I do up a mock up one and let her see.. She say ok.. Then there are some mistakes. She snub at me again. She asked me know how to do a not. If don't know then don't do. She can do it herself. I was quite angry, I trying to help and she snub at me. If she can do it herself then why ask for help. Since there can't be any mistake to be made then ask a person totally never do before to do. They bound to be some error one lo.
Shu Hua:
She really too much leh.. How can she treat you like that? She work here quite long and still dunno. I thought she always smiling and cheerful but I never know she like that one. Somemore the Lena, I also dun really like her. Your boss employ her just because Wei Yong bring her in. Then still got anymore issues and how you want us to help you?
Me:
Another issue is at the day before the exhibition. Lena asked me to give food vouchers to some association. Then I see got yellow and green. So I asked her. She tell me yellow one for sat and green one for sun. But when distributed out, got one aunty called and tell me she got the wrong date one. I called and tell my boss about it. He say ok tomorrow they come ask them to exchange. So it seems to be settled. But no lo.. The next day is the event. People take the wrong one in to change. Lena saw the mistakes then she go report to boss.. Then she say I sent the wrong one out. But I blame it on her. Then I kanna say to be blame thrower by boss.. I totally dun feel good lo.
I hope to have a transfer in department as I don't really like working with this bunch of people.
Shu Hua:
Ok no worries. I try to talk to Sharon ya. But u gonna wait awhile for Pamela. Try tell her what she facing and Dun mention the people name involved. It will get you into trouble. I talk to you after that. See how can I help ya. Relax ok. Cheers~
(Not long later Pamela enters.)
Shu Hua:
Pam, this is Renee. She's here to see you.
Pam:
Hi Renee, come into my office and take a seat.
(Follows her in)
Pam: (after settling her stuff)
Renee, I heard there are some issues among you, Tanya and Lena. May I know when did you join the company?
Me:
Ya there is a few.
On 8 Dec 08.
What issues have you heard about they and me? Sorry to ask coz I wanna know before I tell my side of story.
Pam:
Its ok Renee. Its like you have joined the company at the wrong period of time as its the busiest period of your team. I know there should someone to guide you but they are too busy with their work and I think you should be more understanding. Do you like to share with me what did you face?
Me:
I know its the busy period for my team because of the 50+ project. But I am still quite new and have not much experiences. There are quite a number of times I tried ask my team members about how should certain things being done, but all I get was either silence, dunno, not free, on the phone or go ask boss. Is this what they meant they are trying to help or protect me?
Pam:
I understand Renee. But the team members whom you referring to is Tanya or Lena?
Me:
Both. (This is the voucher prob, so I summerize it) Another thing that I am unhappy about is that when problem is surfaced and its their fault. But I got to know it before they do. So I told my boss my about it. In the end, they say I pushed the blame to them.
Pam, am I employ here to be a blame carrier or clear my team members' shit?
Pam:
Renee, I understand how you feeling. Maybe you have very deep misunderstanding with your team members.
I would like say my point of view is that this team is not suitable for you. They may have high expections on you. How would you want us to help you?
Me:
I would like to have a transfer in dept.
Pam:
For now all the dept head count are full.. I suggest best is you find a new job.
Me:
But is not very fair for me right. I have to lose a job just because my colleagues don't like me and I have to pay the agency just because I don't want the job.
Pam:
There's no win-win situation for you. I only can help you talk to your agency and let them know that it's not 100% your fault and they should not collect any fee penalty from you.
Me:
What not 100% my fault? What did I do wrong? Can tell me a not?
Pam:
Your team members say that you didn't do your invoices properly. That's your fault right.
Me:
Can you please check whether I got do my things properly before accusing me?
Pam:
Ok since you do not have any fault. I try to talk your boss and see how can we help you. I will let you tomorrow morning.
Me:
Ok thanks. But another thing is regarding my block leave. As the company was close for 2 weeks in end Dec, my team was entitled 5 days of leave. I would like to clear it. But I wasn't allowed to.
I was told by hr angie that my team is advised to clear our leave by end jan. If we do not clear our leave, 2 days will be deducted on the days after CNY which is 28 and 29 Jan. While the 3 days will be brought forward to Feb and we must clear it before Feb ends.
But I wanted to clear on this Thurs and Fri (22 and 23 Jan) and next week Wed - Fri (28 - 30 Jan). But my boss doesn't allow it. Could you please advise me?
Pam:
Renee, I can't really meddle too much into your dept tiny witty things. If I meddle too much, later other dept will ask me to meddle with theirs then isn't it making me very busy.
Renee, you must talk to your boss about this. I can't help you much. Letting you go on leave is up to him.
Me:
But CNY is a period where family get together. He want everyone to work till Fri but I already got my ticket to go back Malaysia. Isn't it very unreasonable of him not letting me go and enjoy my holiday with my family?
Pam:
Renee, I understand how you feel. But I think now your dept is still busy. So they need your help.
Me:
I actually wanna take leave from 19 Jan - 23 Jan. But he rejected. My parents had been unhappy that they have to go back Malaysia with me joining them later. Now I just wanna take a few days before and after CNY do spend sometime with my family, somemore this 5 days leave are entitled to me. Please do stand in my shoes and think. My boss thinking may not be wrong. My thinking may not be wrong. But I hope you put yourself into our shoes and think before you make any decision.
Pam:
Alright Renee. I try to talk to CH and I will get back to you.
Me:
Ok sure. Thanks for helping and your listening ear.
(Walk out of her room and headed over to Melanie)
Melanie:
Renee how's everything?
Me:
Nah Still surviving. Where's the contract of the exhibitiors I need?
Melanie:
Here they are. Btw I heard Kess and Tanya talking about you to CH. Think they are the ones who complaint you to HR. They are so evil hearts.
Me:
Hmm.. Just let them be. See how much they can say and I not going to bother.
(Shu Hua pass-by)
Shu Hua:
Renee, how's the talk between you and Pam? Wanna show her _|_ ma?
Me:
Wah!! Hehe.. Ya feel like to lo. Coz everything sounds like she talking in her stand.
Shu Hua:
I also don't like working for her. Planning to quit in a 2 -3 months. Hope to save enough for my uni this July.
Me:
Oh best of luck ya. Hmm.. I now thinking about my leave. CH doesn't want to approve. Super sian.
Shu Hua:
Don't worry. Just tell him. He should be understanding one lo.
Me:
Ok ba. Update you again. Thanks for all the help. Hehe.. I got to go lunch with my temp staff.
(End of Conversation)
After here, I didn't talk to anybody. Do my work and all. Work till 6.15pm due to I am late today. Ya like drag myself to work. Hai tomorrow another day before my leave starts. I will try to do all my stuff by tomorrow so that Thurs I can have my FULL DAY LEAVE. I want to enjoy CNY instead of let this stupid dept spoil my mood. :)
Friday, January 16, 2009
I hate my life
For the past 2 days and today I dun see the ppl I dislike at work. Went for my lesson at CPA House on Wed. Lecturer was funny as he joke once in awhile so that we would not fall asleep as after a day work still go lesson is quite tiring as energy is slowly draining..
After lesson went back with my neighbour who is in the same class as me.. Quite coincidence la.. I dunno I am sitting next to her.. Lol.. Until she tapped on my shoulder then I realised that.. Haha.. I was wondering how long would it take me to find a friend in this class.. Haha.. As mostly a lesson last at least 6 months. After that will be different sub and different class again.. Lol.. So chat with her on the way back.. Guess what.. We walked back home instead of train. We at first thought take train.. But in the end, the breeze of the cold wind, made us change our mind.. Lol..
Hmm.. She asked me about my family.. The word "family" makes me reluctant to speak. Dunno why.. I slowly dun like to talk about them.. When reaching my block.. I stumbled at whether I belong here or this place is where I have to pay my debts from the day I am born into this world.. I really reluctant to come home everyday. Its like I dun sense the comfort of belonging to this place. Everybody in that house is talking about nothing but "MONEY". Ya for now they dun come to me as I withdraw myself to a corner where I find silence there. So far no harm yet. But how long could it last. I really not sure. In this place there isn't a moment of privacy or a space for your own. Damn freakingly like a jail house.
Anyway I feeling bored with work, life and some other things. Its always things personal that gives problem and a mega headache. I wanna set it free from me but I just can't do so. Maybe I have too much feelings for it. Wonder when will I learn to let it go and instead set myself free all these unwanted problems.. Damn vex and at a wits end. Haiz..
Hope you folks have a great day and weekend ahead!! ^^
A Note for myself:
Jia You Renee Zhu!! Dun let them get you down. Bulk up and fight against them. U are not a weakling. Show them who u are. U are strong and capable to fight against all. Where is your strength and determination. When did you start to let problems to conquer you. Remember you always solve all yr problems and live life happily.. Why now you are defeated? Ganbatte!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Good Job With Lousy People
I am back to blog today and I am in office.. Damn angry and frustrated.. Boss sides staff whom working with him for some time and whatever they say and do are correct.. Even I do not have any wrong, also kanna to carry blame.. Totally no fairness in this team at all.. Co-ordination work also sucks..
Today plan to come in at 12 noon.. But boss called for a meeting.. Ya its regarding the event which just ended last sunday.. Guess what.. This event is a total flop.. Names of delegates got printed twice for the conference.. Tanya Goh the fat idiot blame it on me.. I defended myself as badging is not my part of work. Its done by my intern staff whose is back in his school for lesson. I was damn angry as I have nothing to do with it.. Why she must push the blame to me? Things I don't do also got my prob.. Ok the word FxxK just blah out of my mouth in the meeting with my boss.. Coz I have lost my coolness.. In conclusion, she blame me for screwing the whole event. I wanna say is for the conference what I did was to collect money from those people who have not paid up. For the exhibition, I am station in the Show Management Office (SMO) to do front desk for enquiries and exchanging of food coupons. The job there are super free one lo except some nasty or maybe crazy people who came in to make u busy for a moment. I consider them as my entertainers for the day. From all these can you tell me how will I screw up the event. Damn sickening lo.
Ya after the meeting.. She dump all the invoices and claims on my desk. I am going to do my boss claims and invoice payments for the event. Which boss had instructed me.. I solely will do boss works.. Threw back all the claims that the fat idiot ask me to do.. She was unhappy and I couldn't be bothered. She sucks anyway.. Then she complain to boss.. Then I told boss since she dunno how to do therefore I also dunno coz no one teach me how to handle those.. So I put it back for her to figure out and teach me. I dun wan anyhow do and in the end kanna blame for nothing.
Boss then say staff claims put aside. Paying those people outside our company their invoices first. So I did what boss said. As I was preparing, Wei Yong came over to me and asked me to photocopy Media Fiesta documents for boss as they later going for meeting.. I asked Wei Yong where can I get empty arch file. He replied only Tanya have it. I was super sian to walk to her there and talk to her lo. No choice. Went to her and ask her. This fat idiot ask me what thing you want. FxxK lo.. I said so clearly, I want a empty arch ring file. Fat idiot with a big butt stuck to a small chair. Want her get up to find thing for me like fxxking difficult. Anyway since she is giving me this kind of attitude. She will get it soon from me.. I just dislike fat people. Especially her kind.
When she finally get up to try open her cupboard, its locked. Here's the Dialogue
Fat Idiot (Shouting): Did you lock my cupboard?
Me: Nope
Fat Idiot: That day I ask you take the free gift to Lynn then you take already didn't lock my cupboard?
Me: That day I was at Accounts when you called me. When I came down, I pass the keys to Lynn. She's the one who open your cupboard not me. I didn't even touch your cupboard.
Fat Idiot: I don't know should I trust you a not!
Me: Hey I already told you I didn't open your cupboard right!!
Fat Idiot: Ok never mind!
Me: I wanna make myself clear that I didn't open your cupboard!
Fat Idiot: Ok I am sorry can! I already say never mind right.
Me: Ok fine. (Standing there and waiting for her to get the empty file for me)
Fat Idiot: You don't have to stand here, I won't take your keys!
Me: I want my arch file quick!!
Fat Idiot: Don't worry I will give it to you! (She threw it onto my hands)
Boss came by......
Boss: Renee, where's the suntec contract?
Me: It's together with the suntec chq.
Boss: No I only received the chq from you.
Me: Checking my file.... Boss the contract is not in the file and it should be given to you if its not in here. Btw Boss the chq is not pass to you by me. Last Friday I was in office and when you wanted the chq, I told you its in the hotel room. Then I told you I put my bag in Yasin's room. Boss do you remember who pass you the chq?
Boss: Can you call Yasin and ask as I don't remember.
Me: (Calling Yasin and Put him on Loud speaker, Not long he pick up) Yasin, last friday who went into your room to take the suntec chq for boss?
Yasin: I went in to take and pass it to Tanya.
Me: Did you take the chq only or with the suntec contract too?
Yasin: I take the contract and chq to her as you put it in one folder for suntec chq and contract so I pass her the whole folder. Why?
Me: Ok thanks. Nothing boss is asking for the contract. I go and let him know. (Hangs up)
Boss: Tanya where's the contract?
Fat Idiot: I need to find
Boss: Renee try to ask Tanya for the contract as its urgent. (Walk back to his desk after talking)
After that I went back to my work station. This fat idiot was purposely asking everyone go for lunch. I ignore her. Anyway just let her be. Then she tries to ask boss, boss walks out and left. No matter she called him, he just headed for the door.
I went lunch with my temp staff.. Then back for lunch.. Around 3pm, I went to her and ask for the contract. She haven't find it. Her reply was I need to find. Then I say the contract took you so long to find. How long more you need? Boss say its urgent. I need to know so that I can let boss knows. She kept quiet. I don't wanna press her for an answer. Let boss do it.
Damn sian working here with this kind of colleague. Anyway got 2 lousy colleagues already. Still dunno the others well but this whole dept work always last minute. Totally dun like it.. Work OT no OT pay. I not going to be kind soul to stay and do last minute work. From today, on the dot at 6pm, I will pack up and leave office.
This is quite a long post. Its really a bad day for me at work after the event. Hope u peeps enjoy yr day. ^^
Saturday, January 3, 2009
Disaster New Year!!
Its 2009 and its been awhile I blog. Lol. Hmm.. Thanks Henry's friend for giving the tickets for the countdown at Marina Bay Stage. The sitting is good as can see the fireworks clearly and unexpectedly none of the spectators stood up during the fireworks and everybody just stick to their chair and enjoy the beautiful fireworks display.
Though another year and a new beginning. Hmm.. More things coming. Busy life. Lol.. But in the end I still enjoying myself. Haha..
But the start of 2009 don't really seems to be smooth to me. Hmm.. First Day of Work in 2009 and I am LATE!! Roar.. Then worst is weekends kanna ask to go back office to work.. Waited there for like 2 hours with nothing to do.. Wondering what am I called to back for.... Lots of questions popping out of my head.. Ya curious when being at place with nothing to do while I can actually be at home to have nice sleep to gain back the sleep I have lost. Lol.. But Nevertheless, there's something to do..
Hmm.. Offer my help.. Trying to ask things which I don't really understand. But instead of explaining and guiding. She snub at me. WTH!!
I don't understand what heck is all the stuff she want me to help. I just ask so that I can do it clean and minimize everyone's work. Damn kid wanna boss around the office. I wanna say she's fat.. Eating non-stop the whole day take a long BIG time to get something done and she can stay till wee hours of the night to get her things done coz simply telling people she got no life. But frankly speaking it seems its still lots undone even she stay late. Ponders...
Bcoz of her that's why everyone's weekend are spoil to go back help her to get all her things done. If she can jolly well do it herself and don't come say if you don't understand, I can do it myself. I don't need you to help me as I can't afford to have mistakes now.
Then first and foremost, don't ask anyone to help. When others don't understand, its clearly that what you say was brief and as if everyone know what you are instructing. This is a idiot fat kid.
Ya I am pissed. Bcoz of her. My weekend go burst not only me there are some others but I dunno how they are feeling. Kess and I are abit perk up already. Coz Kess, Yasin and me went back office and we were like a waste of time here coz we had nothing to do there already as we have all cleared our job.
Frankly speaking, I don't like people who are FAT. But if the person who didn't come and cross my path, I will not bother about it too much. Till now I still dislike people who are fat coz they are the most incosiderate people.
Ok I still meet some nice people who are fat. But they are like a few out of the whole bunch of Idiots..
Though I keep telling myself not to be angry and ignore her coz my purpose of going is to let my boss see that I am willing to come back work even its weekend. But its damn hard. Roar!! Tomorrow is sunday. I going to enjoy it before a hectic week starts.
Hope the event will go smooth and we can get the load thrown away. Although I am not fully involve in the event as I just joined the company. But I have learnt some skills in this con-current event. Hehe.. Hope to have my next post up soon. Hehe.. ^^
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