Friday, January 30, 2009
Just a Random Post!!
Hmm.. This topic is discussed between my cousins and Everything will be in General as no names of any parties mention by us will be written here. (KC, Wei & Me)
Its about BGR!!
KC: Hey ask u all, how do u feel how women is feeling?
Wei:
Hmm.. Guys dun really know women lo. Only women can sense how woman/women is feeling. This one ask LH (Me).
Me:
Hmm.. It depends la. Ladies will only be sensitive about what other women is feeling when they are in situation when she's with her bf or with her friends. But the grade of feeling or sensitive depends on who she is with lo.
KC:
Can give example a not? Maybe u start with the surrounding when the women is with her best friends or buddies.
Me:
Ok. If the woman is with her group of ladies and guys friends where no further relation is involve, most likely she will like take it normal and even if she sees her girl friends flirting with the guys or vice versa. She will played along too. This also involves friends whom she knows or dunno. This is quite straight forward as its kinda obvious to be seen. The way she mingle and talk will be notice.
KC:
Ok. What about the lady went out with a group of friends where got both sexes but now in the group, she likes a particular guy?
Me:
Oh.. The lady will try to stick to the guy she likes and will not mingle much with other guys. Even if other guys tries to flirt she will turn away. But she will flirt with the guy she likes only. Even her ladies friends became not that important.
But she will try to talk to the guy and let others got not much chance or probably no chance to talk to him. The thing also must that the guy also interested in talking to her. If the guy doesn't then she will just let him mingle with others while she seat there alone or maybe talk to whoever approach her.
KC:
Oic.. Then what about a couple went with a group of friends but the lady just got to know some her partner friends.
Me:
Wah.. This one a bit hard to answer leh. Coz all are the guy's friends not girl one. We put her bf's guys friend aside as if they talk to her guy much, she won't have much reaction just sit there and listen or may share her views.
BUT if her bf's girls friend talk to him, she will take it as normal if they keep a distance. If the lady whom her bf is talking to starts to play/joke with her bf, her reaction will be great different.
Let me elaborate,
if the gf is a hot-tempered person, she will get angry and just interrupt. Ask her guy to somewhere to give her piece of mind and want the guy to understand that he is with his gf and should show some respect instead of treating her as invincible and she dun even care how long have her bf know the ladies. Her jealousy is super high. She will say what she sees, what she dun like and want the guy to leave the place immediately. There's no further talk for this kind of person.
If the gf is a person who is quick temper, she will tolerate first and say her guy later. All she will say is that next time dun treat her as invincible. She will get jealous by showing unhappy to get attention, but mostly will be misunderstand as not understanding. Even she explained her guy may not agree and try to say her back, she will flare her anger as she wanted some respect and want her guy to understand her position and feelings. But mostly lead to quarrel. But her temper will cool fast and her mood will be back to normal. Her heart still feel the hurt and pain. She will just bear it as she knows guy dun understand how a girl feels and what they actually sense is right.
If the gf is a person with cool temper, she will also get jealous by showing her uneasiness to you. Like trying to cling on to her bf and get his attention. She will tell her bf directly and keep her calm. But most of the time will be ignored as the bf will say her for thinking too much. Then she will just keep quiet and bear everything in her heart. When she reach home she will give it a good cry and goes to bed.
Never look down on how woman sense another lady mind or motive. Its very obivious. If the girl is really angry or agitated, means that its really something wrong with the other party. Although the other lady maybe treating others the same, but there bound to be something different which the guy himself can't see. That's why sometimes a guy's gf tell them about their lady friend behaviour, the guy tend to dun believe as they say we girls are over sensitive. Some people we may know very long, but certain behaviour only others can see and not by our own eyes or our own sense. When a girl tell u how they are feeling or what they sense, its really telling u how uneasy they are feeling. If the bf really care or concern about her, will try to ease her uneasiness by showing how much he really care. By mostly the guy always think that their gf have to be understanding and they will get angry when the gf telling them what they see.
Kor, why do u wanna ask this?
KC:
Oh.. Coz my lady friend like my guy friend. Then whoever talk to my guy friend especially girl, she will show some reaction. Sometimes I wonder why. Now I understand already. But how u all girl know that the girl like the guy.
Me:
Aiyo Kor, you know girl is super sensitive one. They scared other people be third party, so they super cautious. That's why they never let their guard down especially when there are other women around their guy. Every action and reaction, they also read one. Hehe.. Some girls think they know the guy well and thought the guy's gf won't mind. They super wrong lo. When the women know about it, they will backstab the guy's gf to the guy. This is how sometimes a relationship ended.
KC: Wah got so jiat liat ma?
Me: Got la.. Then when are you going to have a gf?
KC, Wei: Why every year you ask the same qns one?
Me: Oh.. Then when are you going to get married? Haha!!
KC:
Wa lau!! No gf, how to marry?!
Then where is yr bf?
Me: Haha.. He go visiting la.
Wei: Why u didn't go?
Me: Nah.. Here hongbao got more!! Hee!!
Wei:
Aiya, dun like to go to places with a lot of unknown people la. Just say la. Always go to places with unknow people, you will keep quiet and just smile after that try to stick with people you know and dare not talk much. People ask you eat, you also pai sei. Then eat a bit and say full. U super funny. Why scared of people? They will eat you meh. Till now you still dun dare to talk to people whom you dunno. Then like that how you make friend de.
KC:
You dunno meh, people approach then she talk. If not fat hope she talk to you. She got no guts one lo. Haha..
Me:
Ya la.. I dunno how to talk to people I dunno. Somemore I dunno the person like to talk what or hear what. At most I ask one qns, u eaten already.. Haha.. After that I dunno what to say liao.. Haha..
KC, Wei: You noob leh!!
KC: LH, the show inside this girl, if you were her what will you do.
(The screen was showing, a couple going out with the girl's friend)
Me: Hmm.. I will ask my friend to stop being so hanky panky lo. Coz dun feel good ba
KC: U will like that meh? I doubt you will do so
Wei: I agree
Me:
Hmm.. May not.. Coz I scare lose a friend and my bf will not be happy.. I will just keep quiet la. But feel unhappy inside..
KC, Wei:
Haha.. Still old you. Always like to keep unhappiness in your heart. Wonder how many unhappy things you have keeping in your heart which any of us including yr bf know.
Me:
Where got things unhappy? Crazy.. If unhappy, I won't be here talking to you all. But hid one corner and be alone lo.
KC:
Hmm.. We know one lo. But if you wanna keep, want to force also no use de. I guess it should be personal. But dun torture yrself ok.
Me:
Aiyo Kor, you worry too much le la. I am fine la.. Hehe.. Hmm.. Got a car park outside AK gate. Who is it? Aren't all the guests and our family members here?
KC, Wei & Me: Why MBTB is here? Sian!! Let's go upstairs!! I want aircon.
KC:
Wei go roll up the carpet, if not LH gonna feel itchy on her feet due to the dust on the carpet. Like last year. Haha..
Me:
Wa win le lo. Haha.. But I really allegy to dust la. That time my eyes also feel itchy. I go get drinks. You all go up first. Hehe..
Wei: Cheng, we going upstairs, u wanna go up or stay with the kids?
Cheng: Coming!!
Ok this is a dialogue with my cousins. Hmm.. Basically this is what I see and gone through. Its not totally accurate as not every woman having the same personality or character. Everyone is different in handling every matter. As I had said, this is very general of some people I have seen and the behaviour. Hope nothing infested anyone's mind. Haha.. Have a great day!! Ciaoz!!
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